Idaho, a sense of place (and belonging)
Happy Thanksgiving.
Readers, please bear with me. Recently, I was asked “about the term, sense of place, what does it mean?” and last night I remembered having written this many years ago for a class on the Contemporary History of the American West. So here goes:
I love being from the West. I especially love that my part of the West is Idaho. I was born in Orofino, Idaho, part of the Nez Perce Indian Reservation, site of a gold rush, and by Canoe Camp of the Lewis and Clark expedition.
My great-grandparents homesteaded a one hundred and sixty acre wheat farm on the Palouse. It’s still in the family. My grandmother taught in a one-room schoolhouse. My maternal grandfather was a Swedish immigrant, logging on Gold Hill when he was 12 years old. My father was a logger and a rodeo cowboy. My step grandad was a logger and my other grandpa, the postmaster in Potlatch. I can make a cake with bear fat and comb my hair with a wagon wheel…..just kidding about the cake and wheel.
Being an Idaho native and daughter of the West is a great part of who I am. I let it define me in all the best ways whenever it suits me: bold, romantic, beautiful, daring, ever-changing. The West’s finest attributes I claim as my own. And, with a certain amount of swagger inherited from the men in my family, I often lay claim to some of the rougher parts of being a Westerner: I can drive a truck, drink most people under the table and swear like a logger. I used to be able to do it all at one time.
I believe being a Westerner makes you strong. It especially makes women strong. Some of my most cherished women friends, the one’s from the West, are the strongest women I know. They can cook for roundup or forest-fire camp, ride for roundup, pull a calf, barrel race their horse as rodeo queen and yodel. Lord, I wish I could yodel.
My sense of belonging to this state runs deep. I have friends here from kindergarten. People in my hometown still know me by name. I’ve met all of the governors in office since I was a little girl. I have pressed and cataloged all the wildflowers of my county. My family members are buried here or their ashes scattered in the Idaho countryside. I love the trillium of spring, thimbleberries of summer and old forgotten homestead apples in autumn.
The most beautiful weather in the world is in Idaho. Once, I had to stop the car and catch my breath at the top of the Camas Prairie at Grangeville. The sky was violet-black and the wheat fields blazing gold, just before a thunderstorm. The wind caused ripples in the fields. Sun, rain, hail and snow, all in 15 minutes.
I have lived in San Francisco and near Washington DC and witnessed what Wallace Stegner called the stormy physical and intellectual weather of both coasts. And though I love having seen how the other half lives, I will always call Idaho and the American West my home. I have entertained the notion of moving to Montana or Oregon, both very Western. But it isn’t the same sense of place. I won’t be leaving. I can’t image not being able to say, “I live in Idaho… I was born here.”
Mary Ann Newcomer
April 5, 2001
(Note, I have another version of this that I hope they will use someday for my obit. Of course, I want to have the last word)

That’s terrific. I think it should be part of your About page. And frankly, I bet you could make a cake out of bear fat if that’s all that was available and it was time for a celebration.
Your words warm my heart! Maybe you can’t yodel……but you do a great Ki-Yi-Yi! And yes, I do miss Idaho.
Your friend west of the Cascades.
lovely, just lovely, Mary Ann. You have Idaho in your DNA~ and I’m proud to know you.
What a beautiful, funny, poignant essay – And I believe every word of it (especially about how you can do all those rugged things at once).
Thank you on this Thanksgiving.
xoxoxoDebra
What an enjoyable thing to come home to after engaging in Turkey Day. I do think the West makes women strong, and I include Oklahoma in the West. My goodness, we had to be, otherwise, we wouldn’t have survived. We have that resilience in our DNA, my dear, and I agree with Kathy. You should put that on your about page. It’s fascinating, bear fat and all.